Message of Abbot Paul - Friday 18th August 2023
Abbot Paul • August 18, 2023


As ever, it was a great joy to visit my mother yesterday and to have the opportunity of a walk on the beach with Toby. Although the carparks were full and there were long queues waiting patiently for ice cream, there were very few people actually on the beach, apart from dogwalkers. It was warm but windy and the sea as far out as it can go, so we had the vast expanse of sand to ourselves, which is what both of us prefer. It was lovely being with my mum, enjoying good food, admiring the hundreds of birds that come to feed in her garden and talking about everything that comes to mind, yesterday mostly remembering Michael Parkinson. I wish I had my mother’s acute memory and eye for detail.
​Today’s Gospel reading from Matthew, (Mt19: 3-12), is about marriage and divorce and I have commented on it a number of times since I began writing these daily messages, so I won’t repeat myself. Instead, I will speak of something else, something more personal. It was five years’ ago that Fr Nicholas, then Prior and Parish Priest of Belmont, was appointed Prior Administrator of Downside Abbey, only be elected Abbot of Downside two years’ later. At the time I had no one to appoint as his replacement on the parish, so I became “caretaker parish priest”. Now that the time has come to hand over this care to someone else, Fr Augustine, who has been my righthand man from the beginning of Covid onwards, I would like to thank all those, lay and monastic, who have made these five years of additional service possible for me. It’s never been a burden, but always a source of great joy and fulfilment. On 1st September, Fr Augustine will become Parish Priest of Belmont, not a caretaker in any way, and I will step down. However, in a way, it will be like jumping from the frying pan into the fire, as from 9th September, with the help of the monastic community, I will take on pastoral oversight for the parishes of Leominster and Bromyard. While I am still Abbot of Belmont, this will have to be on a parttime basis, but when I retire as abbot after twenty-four years’ service next Spring, I hope to move to Leominster at the request of the Archbishop and take on the duties fulltime. This is not what I planned or had hoped to do, so it must be God’s will. Please could I ask for your prayers?

Bishop Mark Jabalé OSB RIP Given at his funeral by Dom Alexander Kenyon Baby Jean Pierre (Mark) Jabale was born on October 16th, 1933, in Alexandria, Egypt. As he said, himself, his background could be considered “cosmopolitan”: his father was Lebanese / French and his Mother, British / Greek / French. He also reminded people that he wasn’t Egyptian. Through his mother, Arlette, he was related to St. Jean Vianney, so it was, perhaps, no surprise that he followed in his priestly footsteps. His father, Jean, was MD of Fiat and Simca cars Europe and, maybe surprisingly or not, he did love a car – not, however, Italian cars, but German; he loved his Audis. Perhaps we should begin today by remembering his mother and father, his brothers Christian and Paul and his nieces, here today, Aline and Nathalie and Isabelle and their families – they were so dear to him and he to them and I know they miss him enormously. Young Jean wanted to join the Navy and came to England, to Belmont Abbey school but the Lord had other ideas – he ended up joining the rather land locked monastery, our dear, late Fr. Raymund opining that he wouldn’t last a month. After a rather uninspiring course of priestly studies (his words, not mine) he studied for a Licentiate in French literature in Fribourg, then a Dip Ed at Strawberry Hill and played Rugby there – the Papist Witch Doctor as he was affectionately known. Teaching followed, at Belmont, Housemaster, acting Headmaster, then to Alderwasley, our prep school in Derbyshire as Headmaster, and then back to Belmont soon after as Headmaster. In 1983 he went to Peru to build our first monastery there only to realise there was little money. So, he returned to the UK to put in a stint of fundraising with his usual zeal and determination. With his mission accomplished he was asked by Abbot Alan to return to Belmont as his prior in 1986 – Peru remained close to his heart. In 1993 he was elected Abbot. In his time as Abbot, he had to preside over the closure of the school, necessary but no less painful for him. In 2000 he was appointed coadjutor Bishop of Menevia and succeeded Bishop Mullins in 2001. He retired as Ordinary in 2008 and “retired” to Chipping Norton as parish priest, then Hendon, saying Mass for the nuns and helping with confirmations. After a spell at Archbishop’s House, Westminster, living with his great friend Cardinal Nichols, he came home to Belmont – it was as though he had never been away and he loved being back in the monastery, particularly praying the Office with the community. That’s the list, of sorts, but it doesn’t really say “who” he was. I haven’t mentioned his outstanding contribution to rowing – the 1979 coxless, lightweight four gold medal at the world championships in Bled, which almost didn’t happen as, at the last minute, he was told there was no money to send the crew. He begged, cajoled and got them there – the video footage of the final is compelling. He transformed Henley Royal Regatta, writing a computer programme for the race results – he was well ahead of his time. He coached the Oxford Boat, ran the Heads of the River Schools Regatta, and more. What an achievement from someone who had never sat in a boat but learned on the job, as he said, “from books, mainly”. It was his determination, his commitment, his love of people and his drive to share what he had that is, perhaps, one of the key things to celebrate about him. And it was underpinned by his rock-solid faith – nothing overly pious, nothing showy, but a faith and a love of the Lord built on granite. Even his occasional lack of patience (sorry Mark) extended to that faith; ‘why won’t God call me?”. At the risk of being irreverent my response was always “would you want you?”. But God did want him, and he knew it. God had a purpose for his Apostle during his life and he now rests with Him in eternity. His purpose was, simply, to bring the joy of the Lord into the lives of others, in many and varied ways. A few weeks before Mark died, Pope Francis died. When the late Pope was seriously ill the son of friends of mine who entertained Mark and I to lunch regularly, was distraught at overhearing mum and dad say the Pope may die. He couldn’t stop crying. “But darling”, they said, “you don’t know the Pope, why so very sad?”. “We do know him” came the reply, “it’s Mark”. “No, Mark isn’t the Pope”. “Oh, so when the Pope does die will Mark be Pope then?”. Mark loved that one. When Mark himself did die said son would only be pacified by picking flowers from the garden and bringing them to church for him. He wanted to show how much Mark meant to him and wanted to give a little something back. That is the real biography – a man loved, respected, a man who shared what he had, above all his faith, a man who touched so many lives and made them better.  Rest in peace our dear friend.