Message of Abbot Paul - Friday 29th
Abbot Paul • July 28, 2022

Message from Fr Paul for Friday, 29th July 2022
Friendship and hospitality are two of the most important and rewarding aspects of our God-given human life and lie at the very heart of the Christian faith. The angel Gabriel offered the hand of God’s friendship to Mary at the Incarnation, when she gave the hospitality of her womb to the incarnate Son of God, the Word made flesh, Jesus our Lord and Saviour. Jesus healed the sick and forgave sinners as a sign of God’s friendship towards us and, at the Last Supper, called his disciples friends. If we are truly his disciples, then we are also friends of Jesus. I always remember my Welsh grandmother singing, “What a friend we have in Jesus.” It was one of her favourites hymns and still is one of mine, a hymn that brings tears to my eyes. Although a Presbyterian, like St Benedict, she always spoke of receiving Christ in all those who came to her door. That is why she always had the kettle on the hob, ready to make a fresh pot of tea for anyone coming to visit. More importantly perhaps, she and my grandfather fed all the children in their street during the Great Depression in the 1930s. It was a great sacrifice, but they saw it as their Christian duty and they did it for the love of God and neighbour. They extended their friendship and hospitality to all those in need. It made a powerful impression on my father and his brothers. Today we keep the feast of Saints Martha, Mary and Lazarus, friends of Jesus from Bethany, two sisters and a brother, whose house became a second home for Jesus.
Our Gospel passage comes from John, (Jn 11: 19-27), and is part of the account of the Raising of Lazarus. Here it is:
“Many Jews had come to Martha and Mary to sympathise with them over their brother. When Martha heard that Jesus had come, she went to meet him. Mary remained sitting in the house. Martha said to Jesus, ‘If you had been here, my brother would not have died, but I know that, even now, whatever you ask of God, he will grant you.’ ‘Your brother’ said Jesus to her ‘will rise again.’ Martha said, ‘I know he will rise again at the resurrection on the last day.’ Jesus said:
‘I am the resurrection and the life.
If anyone believes in me, even though he dies he will live,
and whoever lives and believes in me will never die.
Do you believe this?’
‘Yes, Lord,’ she said ‘I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, the one who was to come into this world.’”
This part of the account focusses on the faith of Martha, a faith that is mirrored in Mary, and the promise of Jesus that their brother Lazarus will rise from the dead. When Martha says that she believes that he will rise at the resurrection on the last day, Jesus replies that he is the resurrection and the life, meaning that he has power to raise Lazarus from the dead even now, for “whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, and whoever lives and believes in me will never die.” Mary, like Peter at Caesarea Philippi, confesses her faith in Jesus as “the Christ, the Son of God, the one who was to come into this world.” We show our friendship of Jesus by inviting him into our homes, that are the symbol of our lives, and by giving him hospitality in our hearts and souls. May we also learn to see Jesus in others and to love and serve him in them.

Bishop Mark Jabalé OSB RIP Given at his funeral by Dom Alexander Kenyon Baby Jean Pierre (Mark) Jabale was born on October 16th, 1933, in Alexandria, Egypt. As he said, himself, his background could be considered “cosmopolitan”: his father was Lebanese / French and his Mother, British / Greek / French. He also reminded people that he wasn’t Egyptian. Through his mother, Arlette, he was related to St. Jean Vianney, so it was, perhaps, no surprise that he followed in his priestly footsteps. His father, Jean, was MD of Fiat and Simca cars Europe and, maybe surprisingly or not, he did love a car – not, however, Italian cars, but German; he loved his Audis. Perhaps we should begin today by remembering his mother and father, his brothers Christian and Paul and his nieces, here today, Aline and Nathalie and Isabelle and their families – they were so dear to him and he to them and I know they miss him enormously. Young Jean wanted to join the Navy and came to England, to Belmont Abbey school but the Lord had other ideas – he ended up joining the rather land locked monastery, our dear, late Fr. Raymund opining that he wouldn’t last a month. After a rather uninspiring course of priestly studies (his words, not mine) he studied for a Licentiate in French literature in Fribourg, then a Dip Ed at Strawberry Hill and played Rugby there – the Papist Witch Doctor as he was affectionately known. Teaching followed, at Belmont, Housemaster, acting Headmaster, then to Alderwasley, our prep school in Derbyshire as Headmaster, and then back to Belmont soon after as Headmaster. In 1983 he went to Peru to build our first monastery there only to realise there was little money. So, he returned to the UK to put in a stint of fundraising with his usual zeal and determination. With his mission accomplished he was asked by Abbot Alan to return to Belmont as his prior in 1986 – Peru remained close to his heart. In 1993 he was elected Abbot. In his time as Abbot, he had to preside over the closure of the school, necessary but no less painful for him. In 2000 he was appointed coadjutor Bishop of Menevia and succeeded Bishop Mullins in 2001. He retired as Ordinary in 2008 and “retired” to Chipping Norton as parish priest, then Hendon, saying Mass for the nuns and helping with confirmations. After a spell at Archbishop’s House, Westminster, living with his great friend Cardinal Nichols, he came home to Belmont – it was as though he had never been away and he loved being back in the monastery, particularly praying the Office with the community. That’s the list, of sorts, but it doesn’t really say “who” he was. I haven’t mentioned his outstanding contribution to rowing – the 1979 coxless, lightweight four gold medal at the world championships in Bled, which almost didn’t happen as, at the last minute, he was told there was no money to send the crew. He begged, cajoled and got them there – the video footage of the final is compelling. He transformed Henley Royal Regatta, writing a computer programme for the race results – he was well ahead of his time. He coached the Oxford Boat, ran the Heads of the River Schools Regatta, and more. What an achievement from someone who had never sat in a boat but learned on the job, as he said, “from books, mainly”. It was his determination, his commitment, his love of people and his drive to share what he had that is, perhaps, one of the key things to celebrate about him. And it was underpinned by his rock-solid faith – nothing overly pious, nothing showy, but a faith and a love of the Lord built on granite. Even his occasional lack of patience (sorry Mark) extended to that faith; ‘why won’t God call me?”. At the risk of being irreverent my response was always “would you want you?”. But God did want him, and he knew it. God had a purpose for his Apostle during his life and he now rests with Him in eternity. His purpose was, simply, to bring the joy of the Lord into the lives of others, in many and varied ways. A few weeks before Mark died, Pope Francis died. When the late Pope was seriously ill the son of friends of mine who entertained Mark and I to lunch regularly, was distraught at overhearing mum and dad say the Pope may die. He couldn’t stop crying. “But darling”, they said, “you don’t know the Pope, why so very sad?”. “We do know him” came the reply, “it’s Mark”. “No, Mark isn’t the Pope”. “Oh, so when the Pope does die will Mark be Pope then?”. Mark loved that one. When Mark himself did die said son would only be pacified by picking flowers from the garden and bringing them to church for him. He wanted to show how much Mark meant to him and wanted to give a little something back. That is the real biography – a man loved, respected, a man who shared what he had, above all his faith, a man who touched so many lives and made them better.  Rest in peace our dear friend.