Message of Abbot Paul - Thursday 16th June
Abbot Paul • June 15, 2022

Message from Fr Paul for Thursday, 16th June 2022
Yesterday was a particularly difficult day for my mother as her condition deteriorated through the day and the severe pains increased. By evening, thanks to so many prayers, she had improved and was looking forward again to surgery. I remembered what St Bernard had to say about Our Lady’s role in the Passion of Jesus, that to accompany a loved one in their suffering was even more painful than suffering themselves. I thank you all for your prayers that are carrying her through this moment. I should point out that I am an only child and so responsible for my mother as her next of kin. I have friends, but not family to help me. God bless you.
In many countries today the Church celebrates the Solemnity of Corpus Christi, but in England and Wales we wait until next Sunday. In our Gospel reading from Matthew, (Mt 6: 7-15), we hear how Jesus teaches his disciples to pray. He begins by telling them: “In your prayers do not babble as the pagans do, for they think that by using many words they will make themselves heard. Do not be like them; your Father knows what you need before you ask him.” Prayer should not be a multiplicity of words but rather focussed on two things, our worship of God and our faith in requesting what is truly necessary. God knows what we want, so we need not give him the details. He knows far better than we do what our real needs are. We don’t have to present him with a shopping list of requests! He then gives them a short prayer, which has become the prayer of the Church, the Lord’s Prayer. “So you should pray like this,” is how he introduces his prayer. It should be pointed out that there is a slightly different and shorter version in Luke, (Lk: 11: 2-4).
“Our Father in heaven,
may your name be held holy,
your kingdom come,
your will be done,
on earth as in heaven.
Give us today our daily bread.
And forgive us our debts,
as we have forgiven those who are in debt to us.
And do not put us to the test,
but save us from the evil one.”
We know the prayer so well, it’s easy to say it without thinking or, indeed, without really meaning or understanding what we say. No matter how short and to the point it is, prayer can easily be reduced to words and no more. You might want to consider saying this prayer, one phrase at a time, in the course of a day or a week. Make it yours. It’s a prayer to be said by a community or a family, at times by a whole nation. Whereas most probably we say it alone, nevertheless, it is inclusive of the whole of creation: our Father, not my Father, give us, forgive us, do not put us, save us. The first half of the prayer looks to God and our recognition of who he is, the second part looks at our needs and those of the whole world. Jesus has just one comment to make at the end. “Yes, if you forgive others their failings, your heavenly Father will forgive you yours; but if you do not forgive others, your Father will not forgive your failings either.” Jesus asks us to forgive, if we are to expect and receive forgiveness from God. Forgiveness lies at the very heart of the Christian faith. Jesus died on the Cross to forgive us our sins. What can we do in return?

Bishop Mark Jabalé OSB RIP Given at his funeral by Dom Alexander Kenyon Baby Jean Pierre (Mark) Jabale was born on October 16th, 1933, in Alexandria, Egypt. As he said, himself, his background could be considered “cosmopolitan”: his father was Lebanese / French and his Mother, British / Greek / French. He also reminded people that he wasn’t Egyptian. Through his mother, Arlette, he was related to St. Jean Vianney, so it was, perhaps, no surprise that he followed in his priestly footsteps. His father, Jean, was MD of Fiat and Simca cars Europe and, maybe surprisingly or not, he did love a car – not, however, Italian cars, but German; he loved his Audis. Perhaps we should begin today by remembering his mother and father, his brothers Christian and Paul and his nieces, here today, Aline and Nathalie and Isabelle and their families – they were so dear to him and he to them and I know they miss him enormously. Young Jean wanted to join the Navy and came to England, to Belmont Abbey school but the Lord had other ideas – he ended up joining the rather land locked monastery, our dear, late Fr. Raymund opining that he wouldn’t last a month. After a rather uninspiring course of priestly studies (his words, not mine) he studied for a Licentiate in French literature in Fribourg, then a Dip Ed at Strawberry Hill and played Rugby there – the Papist Witch Doctor as he was affectionately known. Teaching followed, at Belmont, Housemaster, acting Headmaster, then to Alderwasley, our prep school in Derbyshire as Headmaster, and then back to Belmont soon after as Headmaster. In 1983 he went to Peru to build our first monastery there only to realise there was little money. So, he returned to the UK to put in a stint of fundraising with his usual zeal and determination. With his mission accomplished he was asked by Abbot Alan to return to Belmont as his prior in 1986 – Peru remained close to his heart. In 1993 he was elected Abbot. In his time as Abbot, he had to preside over the closure of the school, necessary but no less painful for him. In 2000 he was appointed coadjutor Bishop of Menevia and succeeded Bishop Mullins in 2001. He retired as Ordinary in 2008 and “retired” to Chipping Norton as parish priest, then Hendon, saying Mass for the nuns and helping with confirmations. After a spell at Archbishop’s House, Westminster, living with his great friend Cardinal Nichols, he came home to Belmont – it was as though he had never been away and he loved being back in the monastery, particularly praying the Office with the community. That’s the list, of sorts, but it doesn’t really say “who” he was. I haven’t mentioned his outstanding contribution to rowing – the 1979 coxless, lightweight four gold medal at the world championships in Bled, which almost didn’t happen as, at the last minute, he was told there was no money to send the crew. He begged, cajoled and got them there – the video footage of the final is compelling. He transformed Henley Royal Regatta, writing a computer programme for the race results – he was well ahead of his time. He coached the Oxford Boat, ran the Heads of the River Schools Regatta, and more. What an achievement from someone who had never sat in a boat but learned on the job, as he said, “from books, mainly”. It was his determination, his commitment, his love of people and his drive to share what he had that is, perhaps, one of the key things to celebrate about him. And it was underpinned by his rock-solid faith – nothing overly pious, nothing showy, but a faith and a love of the Lord built on granite. Even his occasional lack of patience (sorry Mark) extended to that faith; ‘why won’t God call me?”. At the risk of being irreverent my response was always “would you want you?”. But God did want him, and he knew it. God had a purpose for his Apostle during his life and he now rests with Him in eternity. His purpose was, simply, to bring the joy of the Lord into the lives of others, in many and varied ways. A few weeks before Mark died, Pope Francis died. When the late Pope was seriously ill the son of friends of mine who entertained Mark and I to lunch regularly, was distraught at overhearing mum and dad say the Pope may die. He couldn’t stop crying. “But darling”, they said, “you don’t know the Pope, why so very sad?”. “We do know him” came the reply, “it’s Mark”. “No, Mark isn’t the Pope”. “Oh, so when the Pope does die will Mark be Pope then?”. Mark loved that one. When Mark himself did die said son would only be pacified by picking flowers from the garden and bringing them to church for him. He wanted to show how much Mark meant to him and wanted to give a little something back. That is the real biography – a man loved, respected, a man who shared what he had, above all his faith, a man who touched so many lives and made them better.  Rest in peace our dear friend.