Message of Abbot Paul - Saturday 2nd December 2023
Abbot Paul • December 1, 2023
Yesterday was a glorious day for driving home to spend the day with my mother. It was cold, but sunny and dry. The beach was truly glorious and, as the tide was out, eerily silent. Coming back in the dark, we were accompanied by a moon that was excessively large and red, a looming presence that could not but remind us of the end of the world, of which our apocalyptic readings have spoken a great deal these past few days. So it is that with a deep sense of thanksgiving in our hearts, we come to the end of another year. For Christians, today is New Year’s Eve, as tomorrow, the First Sunday in Advent, we begin a New Year that will lead us through Advent to Christmas and the Epiphany, through Lent to Easter and Pentecost, then that long and varied period that will eventually lead us back to Advent and the beginning of another New Year.
​Today, then, we end the year with a short Gospel passage from Luke (Lk 21: 34-36), where Jesus sums up his teaching on the Second Coming and Final Judgement. He is speaking with his disciples and begins with a warning. “Watch yourselves, or your hearts will be coarsened with debauchery and drunkenness and the cares of life, and that day will be sprung on you suddenly, like a trap. For it will come down on every living man on the face of the earth.” The advice is clear. They are to be watchful of themselves and take care not to give in to the many temptations on offer that would result in a hardening of heart. Likewise, if they succumb to worry and preoccupation, they will not be ready when the day of the Lord comes. It will be like falling into a trap they have set for themselves. What then is the alternative? “Stay awake, praying at all times for the strength to survive all that is going to happen, and to stand with confidence before the Son of Man.” Stay awake, and keep vigil. This is exactly what Advent is, a vigil for the coming of the Lord. And how are we to keep vigil, but by praying at all times, continuous prayer. This really means focussing on God and being aware of his presence in our lives, not simply saying prayers, and praying for strength to face what is to come. That will enable us to stand in confidence before the Son of Man when he appears. In fact, the salvation, that Jesus offers us, enables us to stand with confidence before God, the total eradication of fear. Lord, grant us grace this Advent to stay awake and pray at all times for the strength to stand with confidence before you, rejoicing in the knowledge that you have saved us and given us your kingdom. Amen.
​I remind all those who would like to begin Advent in prayer and song that this evening at 7.30 we have our Advent Carol Service at the Abbey, which will be sung by Academia Musica. Everyone is cordially invited.

Bishop Mark Jabalé OSB RIP Given at his funeral by Dom Alexander Kenyon Baby Jean Pierre (Mark) Jabale was born on October 16th, 1933, in Alexandria, Egypt. As he said, himself, his background could be considered “cosmopolitan”: his father was Lebanese / French and his Mother, British / Greek / French. He also reminded people that he wasn’t Egyptian. Through his mother, Arlette, he was related to St. Jean Vianney, so it was, perhaps, no surprise that he followed in his priestly footsteps. His father, Jean, was MD of Fiat and Simca cars Europe and, maybe surprisingly or not, he did love a car – not, however, Italian cars, but German; he loved his Audis. Perhaps we should begin today by remembering his mother and father, his brothers Christian and Paul and his nieces, here today, Aline and Nathalie and Isabelle and their families – they were so dear to him and he to them and I know they miss him enormously. Young Jean wanted to join the Navy and came to England, to Belmont Abbey school but the Lord had other ideas – he ended up joining the rather land locked monastery, our dear, late Fr. Raymund opining that he wouldn’t last a month. After a rather uninspiring course of priestly studies (his words, not mine) he studied for a Licentiate in French literature in Fribourg, then a Dip Ed at Strawberry Hill and played Rugby there – the Papist Witch Doctor as he was affectionately known. Teaching followed, at Belmont, Housemaster, acting Headmaster, then to Alderwasley, our prep school in Derbyshire as Headmaster, and then back to Belmont soon after as Headmaster. In 1983 he went to Peru to build our first monastery there only to realise there was little money. So, he returned to the UK to put in a stint of fundraising with his usual zeal and determination. With his mission accomplished he was asked by Abbot Alan to return to Belmont as his prior in 1986 – Peru remained close to his heart. In 1993 he was elected Abbot. In his time as Abbot, he had to preside over the closure of the school, necessary but no less painful for him. In 2000 he was appointed coadjutor Bishop of Menevia and succeeded Bishop Mullins in 2001. He retired as Ordinary in 2008 and “retired” to Chipping Norton as parish priest, then Hendon, saying Mass for the nuns and helping with confirmations. After a spell at Archbishop’s House, Westminster, living with his great friend Cardinal Nichols, he came home to Belmont – it was as though he had never been away and he loved being back in the monastery, particularly praying the Office with the community. That’s the list, of sorts, but it doesn’t really say “who” he was. I haven’t mentioned his outstanding contribution to rowing – the 1979 coxless, lightweight four gold medal at the world championships in Bled, which almost didn’t happen as, at the last minute, he was told there was no money to send the crew. He begged, cajoled and got them there – the video footage of the final is compelling. He transformed Henley Royal Regatta, writing a computer programme for the race results – he was well ahead of his time. He coached the Oxford Boat, ran the Heads of the River Schools Regatta, and more. What an achievement from someone who had never sat in a boat but learned on the job, as he said, “from books, mainly”. It was his determination, his commitment, his love of people and his drive to share what he had that is, perhaps, one of the key things to celebrate about him. And it was underpinned by his rock-solid faith – nothing overly pious, nothing showy, but a faith and a love of the Lord built on granite. Even his occasional lack of patience (sorry Mark) extended to that faith; ‘why won’t God call me?”. At the risk of being irreverent my response was always “would you want you?”. But God did want him, and he knew it. God had a purpose for his Apostle during his life and he now rests with Him in eternity. His purpose was, simply, to bring the joy of the Lord into the lives of others, in many and varied ways. A few weeks before Mark died, Pope Francis died. When the late Pope was seriously ill the son of friends of mine who entertained Mark and I to lunch regularly, was distraught at overhearing mum and dad say the Pope may die. He couldn’t stop crying. “But darling”, they said, “you don’t know the Pope, why so very sad?”. “We do know him” came the reply, “it’s Mark”. “No, Mark isn’t the Pope”. “Oh, so when the Pope does die will Mark be Pope then?”. Mark loved that one. When Mark himself did die said son would only be pacified by picking flowers from the garden and bringing them to church for him. He wanted to show how much Mark meant to him and wanted to give a little something back. That is the real biography – a man loved, respected, a man who shared what he had, above all his faith, a man who touched so many lives and made them better.  Rest in peace our dear friend.