Message of Abbot Paul - Friday - 24th May 2024
Abbot Paul • May 23, 2024
​Today we continue our reading of Mark, (Mk 10: 1-12), where we find our Lord in Judaea, surrounded by a large crowd and teaching them. At this time a group of Pharisees approach him and put a question to him, no doubt to test his credentials as a preacher who draws such large crowds to hear his teaching. “They asked, ‘Is it against the law for a man to divorce his wife?’ They were testing him. He answered them, ‘What did Moses command you?’ ‘Moses allowed us’ they said ‘to draw up a writ of dismissal and so to divorce.’ Then Jesus said to them, ‘It was because you were so unteachable that he wrote this commandment for you. But from the beginning of creation God made them male and female. This is why a man must leave father and mother, and the two become one body. They are no longer two, therefore, but one body. So then, what God has united, man must not divide.’ Back in the house the disciples questioned him again about this, and he said to them, ‘The man who divorces his wife and marries another is guilty of adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries another she is guilty of adultery too.’”
​It’s quite obvious that Jesus is very learned in the Law, for the scribes and Pharisees never manage to catch him out or get the better of him. When they ask him about divorce, Jesus points to scripture and God’s original plan for marriage, that two become one body, one spirit in God’s love. United in God, no human being has the right to break that union. It was because they were unteachable that God allowed the writ of divorce. When the disciples question him, Jesus reiterates his dictum to the Pharisees and interestingly puts men and women on equal terms. If a man can divorce his wife on account of adultery, so can a woman divorce her husband, The words of Jesus prompt us to ask a question, perhaps. What, then, is annulment, the only process permitted and recognised by the Catholic Church? In a divorce, the contract or covenant between a couple is cut up and rejected, so that the marriage no longer exists. With an annulment, we set out to show and to prove that the marriage, in fact, never existed, that the couple were never married in the first place. For example, a marriage based on deception, a forced marriage, a marriage between a couple who were not free to marry, perhaps one of them was already married, and so on. Divorce and annulment are not the same!
​This Gospel passage encourages us to pray for all married couples and those planning to marry. We pray especially for those marriages encountering difficulties.
Pope Francis RIP Pope 2013-2025 Born 1936, Died 2025 We are deeply saddened at the passing of Pope Francis. As the successor of St Peter he has been a spiritual father and shepherd to the church in our day, challenging us, and calling as to reach out to those on the peripheries. He was the first Jesuit Pope, but took the name Francis after the Poor Man of Assisi who modelled for him a closeness to the poor, a concern for those on the margins of society and a care for all of creation In his preaching Pope Francis always spoke of the joy of the Gospel and encouraged us to reflect the joy of our faith in our lives. He showed the compassion of Jesus to everyone. He worked tirelessly for the unity of the church and travelled even to non-Christian countries promoting a message of peace. He has left a great legacy. With the presence of the Apostolic Nuncio with the community over Easter we were able to express our closeness to the Holy Father in his final suffering. There will be a special Mass at Belmont this Thursday 24th April at 11am to pray for Pope Francis as he makes his final journey to the house of the Father. On the day of his funeral, the Office of the Dead will be sung, and Mass that day will be a Requiem. May the angels lead him into paradise; may the martyrs receive him at his arrival and lead him to the holy city Jerusalem. May choirs of angels receive him and with Lazarus, the poor man grant him eternal rest." (The In Paradisum, words from the Funeral Liturgy)
We were were honoured and delighted to be joined by the Apostolic Nuncio to celebrate Easter. His Excellency Archbishop Miguel Maury Buendía is the representative of the Holy See in Great Britain, and therefore of the Holy Father. His presence on Easter Sunday morning brought us more consciously in communion with Pope Francis, the successor of St Peter, as we heard the Gospel story of Peter running to the tomb. His patron saint is St Michael, so afterwards, at a festive lunch we were able to present him with some Belmont cufflinks with the monastery coat of arms - very similar to his as Archbishop. We were able to pray for him and his work in this country.
