Belmont at 100: Dom Aelred Kindersley, the First Abbot

July 5, 2020

George Aelred Kindersley was 54 when he became Cathedral Prior of Belmont. Born at Cudalore, India, he had spent all his life from the age of eleven at Downside, except for four years as a Novice and Junior at Belmont (1879-1883). At Downside he had filled a succession of offices, had taught in the school and was Master of Ceremonies at the time of the opening of its Abbey Church in 1905. One year after that he became claustral Prior of Downside under Abbot Cuthbert Butler. Two years later he set up the Downside Noviciate and became Novice Master.


In his relations with the community at Belmont, Prior Kindersley was somewhat hampered by his temperament and manner. Very tall and gorgeous in appearance, with “beetling brows,” he appeared formidable, while, unlike his predecessor, he was not what is called a “good mixer” nor did he have that geniality and personal charm. He was an intensely shy and self-conscious man who hated any display of emotion or sentiment, and his shyness often made him appear brusque. He was also older than many of the monks in the community, which also created a certain distance.


Nevertheless, many of the monks could tell of great kindness received at his hands, and were edified by the example of his personal observance of the role, his unfailing attendance in choir (he was invariably the first down to Choir at Matins). They found him to be sympathetic and understanding.

The Downside Abbey Archives posts this note along side the picture to our left:


"This rather fine looking crow is perched on the shoulder of Dom Aelred Kindersley (1860-1934).  This photograph was taken in 1890. It is unclear if the crow was Kindersley’s pet, or perhaps a wild bird nursed back to health after an accident (the slightly worried expression on Kindersley’s face perhaps suggests the latter option - the crow, after all, has a very large beak!).


"Doubtless the crow was popular with the boys. Kindersley became Prior of Downside in 1906, Cathedral Prior of Belmont in 1915 and first Abbot of Belmont in 1920. He also founded the school at Belmont and is buried there. Sadly, the fate of the crow is unknown."





After having been Cathedral Prior of Belmont for 15 years he was elected Abbot of Belmont on Wednesday, June 30 1920. Abbot Cuthbert Butler, President of the English Benedictine Congregation, presided. The election was by secret ballot, at the close of which the President announced that Abbot Kindersley had been lawfully and duly elected.


The Te Deum was then sung, as is the tradition, and the community went in procession to the Abbey Church, he was enthroned by the President and received the homage of the community.

As Abbot Dom Aelred had a plan for Belmont, which as it became independent and was in an uncertain economic position would soon receive no more novices joining for the Common Novitiate. He proposed that:


1)   The monks should train themselves to give retreats and missions, to preach and lecture, and provide ‘supplies’ for the secular clergy.

2)   The standard of philosophical and theological studies should be such that they could be used by students of other houses.

3)   Eventually Belmont should have missions (parishes) attached to it.



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