The Art of Listening
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4. A Listening Church?
led by Dom Brendan Thomas
Video 1: The Listening Church
Video 2: Listening Across the Divides
For Reflection
Debate | Dialogue |
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Assuming that there is a right answer and you have it. | Assuming that many people have pieces of the answer and that together they can craft a solution |
Combative: participants attempt to prove the other side is wrong. | Collaborative: participants work together toward common understanding. |
About winning. | About exploring common ground. |
Listening to find flaws and make counter arguments. | Listening to understand, find meaning and agreement |
Defending assumptions as truth. | Revealing assumptions for reevaluation |
Critiquing the other side’s position. | Re-examining all positions |
Defending one’s own views against those of others | Admitting that others’ thinking can improve one’s own. |
Searching for flaws and weaknesses in others’ positions | Searching for strengths and values in others’ positions. |
Seeking a conclusion or vote that ratifies your position. | Discovering new optionsnot seeking closure., |
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