Dietrich Bonhoeffer was only 39 years old when he was executed by the Nazis in 1945. He had made broadcasts critical of Hitler in the United States, but decided to sail back to Germany, whatever the consequences. His is courage and vision have greatly influence Christians ever since. He was a pastor and theologian and set up a college for students where he reflected on the meaning of the Christian life. Talking of Christian service he says:
“The first service one owes to others in a community involves listening to them. Just as our love for God begins with listening to God’s Word, the beginning of love for others is learning to listen to them. God’s love for us is shown by the fact that God not only gives God’s Word, but also lends us God’s ear…We do God’s work for our brothers and sisters when we learn to listen to them…Listening can be a greater service than speaking.
Many people seek a sympathetic ear and do not find it among Christians, because these Christians are talking even when they should be listening. The Christians who can no longer listen to one another will soon no longer be listening to God either; they will always be talking even in the presence of God. The death of the spiritual life starts here, and in the end, there is nothing left but empty spiritual chatter and clerical condescension which chokes on pious words.
Those who cannot listen lone and patiently will always be talking past others, and finally no longer even notice it. Those who think the time is too precious to spend listening will never really have time for God and others, but only for themselves and for their own words and plans… But Christians have forgotten that the ministry of listing has been entrusted to them by the One who is indeed the great listener and in whose work they are to participate. We should listen with your ears of God so that we can speak the Word of God.
–Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Life Together (New York: Harper & Row, 1954), 97-8.